MOMS Club of Norfolk, Plainville, & Wrentham

New Member Packet

 

Welcome!

 

Welcome to the MOMS Club of Norfolk, Plainville, & Wrentham. We are thrilled to have you join us! Our group is full of fun, creative, talented, and nurturing moms, and we look forward to getting to know you. There are so many ways to participate in the MOMS Club, whether it be joining in the activities or volunteering your talents.

 

In this new member packet, we have tried to supply information that will be helpful to you, both in learning more about our club, and how you can get the most out of your membership, as well as general guidelines for all members.

Contents

History of the MOMS Club

Officers and committees

MOMS Club principles and purpose

Guidelines for membership

List of Area Playgrounds and popular MOMS Club activities

History

The MOMS (Moms Offering Moms Support) Club is a support group for mothers who have chosen to stay at home to raise their children. We include mothers of all ages, as well as those who work out of their homes or part-time.

The MOMS Club was founded by Mary B. James in Simi Valley, California in 1983, and is now an international network of over 1,500 clubs. Local groups from across the country and even throughout the world share their ideas through our International Newsletter. In areas where there are several groups, local MOMS Clubs get together to network and plan joint activities. We seek to improve the status of at-home mothers everywhere.

The MOMS Club of Plainville Area was founded by a Plainville mom in July 2001, after deciding to stay at home with her young son and relocating to Plainville from Foxboro. Formerly a member of The MOMS Club of Foxboro, this stay-at-home mom was assisted by the Foxboro chapter by sistering a chapter closer to home. Like many moms, she found herself alone during the day and craved the companionship of other moms in the same situation. Our club now has members from the King Phillip School District of Plainville, Norfolk and Wrentham.

Our club has a lot to offer our members. Each month, we have weekly playgroups, a craft day, field trips, a family event, couples night out and MOMS Night Out (no kids or husbands!), as well as our monthly business meeting/open playgroup. We also conduct at least one service project each year that benefits children and their families in the community. The club’s first service project was a toy donation to Norwood Hospital’s ER children’s waiting room. Donations from club members have been given to many area charities, such as Cradles to Crayons. Dues are $25 per year and non-refundable, but if a hardship arises, accommodations may be made. No mother is turned away because of an inability to pay dues. We try to do fun things at little or no cost — we know how families tend to be on budgets!

For more information about the International MOMS Club, visit their website at http://www.momsclub.org

 

 

MOMS Club Principles

 

Women must be free to choose their personal path to fulfillment.

For women who choose it, raising children is an important and fulfilling full-time job.

A family's decision for a mother to stay at home to raise the children often involves considerable financial sacrifice.

There is no one right way to raise children, but a major reason for the members to come together is their desire to seek out mothers with a common concern for raising their children in the best possible and most healthful way.

Children are a community's greatest resource, and that a community's concern for its children is marked by the quality of its schools.

MOMS Club Purpose

To provide a support group for mothers who chose to stay at home to raise their children.

To provide a forum for topics pertinent to children, child-raising, homemaking, personal improvement, and the family.

To engage in activities to enrich the lives of children in the community.

To undertake and complete at least one charitable, humanitarian, or social welfare project related to children each year.

Guidelines for Membership

The following guidelines have been established to allow our members and their children to socialize, play and grow in a healthy and safe environment, and are in addition to our Chapter's Bylaws. If you have any questions about these guidelines, please talk to one of the MOMS Club officers.

Monthly Business Meeting/Open Playgroup and Smaller Playgroups

A business meeting/open playgroup is scheduled each month. All members and their children are encouraged to attend. At this meeting we will discuss future service projects, vote on a variety of issues, have an occasional visiting speaker on relevant topics such as pre-school enrollment, nutrition for toddlers, or early intervention. This is also your opportunity to voice your opinion, bring up any issue of concern or interest. This is an open playgroup for children of all ages. It’s an excellent opportunity to get to know one another. The smaller playgroups within the Club are age-appropriate and can meet anywhere the playgroup feels comfortable, for example at each other’s homes or a park (and preferably not scheduled at the same time as the business meeting).

General Expectations (not mandatory, but suggested)

Members shall attend and participate in as many of the business meetings as possible by contributing their ideas and suggestions.

Members shall contribute time and services for the benefit of the group, including participation in playgroups, seeking Board positions when available, and serving on committees.

Members shall volunteer for at least one charitable activity during the fiscal year by means of time, service, or goods.

All moms need to be responsible for their own children and themselves at all times.

Weather Guidelines

The MOMS Club of Plainville will cancel outings at members’ discretion via a phone chain or e-mail notices.

 

Safety Guidelines for Activities in Members' Homes/Other Locations

Any area in which children play should be structurally safe and sanitary. Outside play equipment must be in good working order, and pools should be either fenced or locked if parents are not present at all times.

All animals should be kept away from the children during scheduled activity times.

No smoking shall be permitted at any indoor MOMS Club activity and consideration for non-smokers shall be expected at outdoor functions.

Children playing on a different floor of the home than the mothers are on must be supervised at all times.

Any firearms must be stored safely out of reach in a locked room that children will not be allowed into during a MOMS Club activity in your home.

Health Guidelines

Healthy members are important to all of us, so please do not attend any MOMS Club activity if within the past 24 hours you or your child has had a fever, cough (that is not allergy, asthma or teething related), green or yellow mucus from the nose, vomiting, diarrhea, any contagious illness, any infections for which you started antibiotics within 24 hours or less or any rash unless diagnosed by a doctor as benign. The officers of the MOMS Club reserve the right to ask a mother with a sick child to leave a meeting or an activity group.

Behavior Guidelines

Unfortunately, children do not always get along with each other. If your child is hitting, pushing, biting, damaging property and/or putting him or herself or any other child in harm’s way, please make every effort to control and correct this behavior immediately. The officers and activity group hostesses reserve the right to ask a mother and child to leave if the child has assaulted other children or damaged property more than twice during the activity; if extreme, it need only happen one time. If a child is asked to leave an activity, due to said behavior, the parent must supervise the child at all times at subsequent activities, until said behavior has ceased. If your child damages or breaks something, valuable or not, it is your responsibility to offer to repair or replace it.

 

Liability Forms and Sign-in Sheet Guidelines

All MOMS Club members must have a signed Liability Release Form on file to participate in activities. If you are bringing children other than your own, the club also needs to have a liability release and medical waiver signed by the child's parents on file. Any guest child will also be expected to abide by all Chapter Guidelines and will be the sole responsibility of the adult bringing the child.

Common Courtesies

Nursing of infants and toddlers is perfectly acceptable at any MOMS Club function and shall not be discouraged in any way.

Parents and their children (if old enough) are expected to help pick up the toys before they leave another member's home, unless the host states otherwise.

Miscellaneous

Only one MOMS Night Out function (that is, an event in the evening without children) will be held each month. The same rule applies to couples night out and a family day/night activity. MOMS Club feels that the family is important, and time away from them should be minimized. However, if members wish to hold other group functions, such as a hoot or howl event (husbands out of town/husbands working late) the event will not be published on the monthly calendar. It is up to interested moms to plan the event among themselves.

Any money generated from a fund raising activity must follow the guidelines for a non-profit group, that is, they must go towards community service, not to benefit the members.

Advertising in the monthly newsletter is available to members. For garage sales, personal items being sold or donated, etc., there is no cost. For a business outside the home, the cost is $60 per year. Please contact the Newsletter Editor to contribute your advertisement.

Meals may be provided for MOMS Club members in the case of a new baby, an illness in the family, or other hardship as the need arises. Please contact the Sunshine Coordinator if you are interested in receiving or donating meals.